Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with men, and you have prevailed.”
Some people come to God with their fists up. You might be one of them, reading this with a list of objections you can't quite put down, or arguing with God late at night about something that happened to you. Somewhere along the way you may have picked up the idea that this kind of struggle puts you on the opposite side from him.